i have a real friend :)

five years ago, i lived in jakarta. when i just new lived there i thought i will have a real friend. but unfortunately i didn't. i continued search my real friend until i was school in 30 junior high school. i was not sure if i will get a real friend. and do you know? my God gave me a surprise. i met with my real friend. i didn't care although she was from a different religious.....

her name was calista. her full name was Ni Desak Gede Calista Saraswati. she was 16 years old. she was birth in september 28 th 1992. calista was a balinesse girl.

unfortunately we must be separated when we were in grade seven. we were very sad because we almost lose our contact :(

my God give me a surprise anymore. she called me and give me her self phone number. she said if she got my home number by my letter that she got from my daddy. an i surprised????? how can???


Cause i didn't have enough time to send a letter for calista when i went to airport to go sidoarjo 3 years ago.


so who has sent her a letter???? we never know... :d

friendship it's real?

Everybody likes to make a friendship of course. Nobody wanna doesn't has a friends... So,what is friends and what is the meaning of friendship????
Check this out!!! 'Friendship' is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more beings.A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors.Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them. Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:
1. the tendency to desire what is best for the other,
2. sympathy and empathy,
3. honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one's counterpart
4. mutual understanding.

Unfortunately there are not many people who can be a real friend for the other people. There are some cause what can make our friendship be broken. This is the cause:

1. there's no trust that we can give for our friends.
2. we are a selfish people. Something that we must know if selfish personality can makes our friends never comfort with us.
3. and we love to make a gank in our environment.

So, what we can do to have a real friendship an a forever friend?

> don't be someone who is very selfish....
> never make a gank...
> be a goo listener for our friends...

i think that's all. Thanks....